Today was my family reunion. I am the president so I kinda had to appear. I had every intention to resign this year but I changed my mind. It had to do with karma. It takes so little of me to do this. I am a mere figurehead. So doing this small good may send other small good things my way,
The reunion went pretty well. The same people. One cousin flies in from California almost every year. Another cousin flies or drives in from Georgia every year. And yet, my uncle from the next town cannot make an appearance, a cousin in town ignores us. But we had lots of good food. My cousin Charlotte is so clever & smart. She wrote up 30 questions about our ancestors. There were copies at each table. We had such fun while eating seeing if anyone knew any of the answers. At the end of the meeting we went through them & got the answers. This stimulated lots of fun stories & many laughs. And a few facts that not everyone knew.
I stopped at Sally’s next. Had a short visit with her, Paul, Jordy, & her daughter. We had a nice visit. They were painting the house. I am glad I only visited.
Our last stop we at our friends’ home for a bbq. Lots of great food. There were some people I did not know but most I at least knew of. It was fun.
The weather was hot — almost 90F — & very humid. Perfect combination for severe weather. About 4pm the clouds rolled in. Rather ugly dangerous looking clouds. While at the bbq the winds came up pretty strong. And then the temp really dropped. It got almost cold out. Soon after the rain started. There were tornados all over the place & hail was pretty near us. We had fairly heavy rain. It appears now that all is over for us here, but more could develop in the west. And tomorrow it will do it all over again.
I got home to some horrible news. My cousin Nancy called about her mom, my Aunt Marth. She was in the hospital 3 weeks ago & never was really ok after that. Then she fell a week ago. Her lungs are shot after years of smoking. She has been on O2 for years. Now she also has a blood clot. She is back in the hospital & not expected to live. If they do everything possible she might live for 3 months, but she is in severe pain. That would be cruel. As a nurse, how well I know. With comfort measures only, she might live a week or a little longer. I have decided not to drive out now. She is in & out of consciousness & this is time for her & her kids & grandkids. I will go out for her funeral. Aunt Marth is my favourite aunt. I always stayed with her when I went to Denver. At nite we would get in our jammies & talk for hours like a couple of teenage girls! And we would eat lots of junk food. And shop. I would give most anything for one more nite. I find it hard now to quit crying. And how do I heal the pain in my heart of already missing her?
And now we have to tell my mom. If we wait some idiot family member will not check if we have told her or not. Then they will tell her & be on their merry way, leaving Mom to cry alone. So tomorrow Jay & I will tell her together. It will not be easy.
Gått för dagen. Kanske.